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Listen, I know it is hard when you feel alone. There are many types of alone too. There is the type of alone where your life is empty with no real friends or loves. There is also the type of alone where your life is full of people, and yet you have no deep and meaningful connections or passion. Then there is the type of alone where people are coming and going and living their lives, and you feel like an invisible observer in an intersection, watching people who are happily passing by, living the life you think you want. Real loneliness can seem like a slow death, where you watch the flower of what you have to offer wilt, and the petals drop one-by-one unnoticed. Then there is the worst kind of loneliness; a feral type of desperation that leaps at every person who pays attention to you and will not let go. The healthy and happy people you want seem to run for their lives, while the damaged, lonely people grab on with equal desperation in a bizarre death-spiral into the darkest of the dark. But have you ever considered another type of loneliness; a good and healthy, happy loneliness? Do you dislike yourself so much that you can't stand to be around you? What? It's boring you say? Let me tell you, if you are bored it is only because you are a boring person. Oh, you just want some companionship? That seems reasonable. Are you a good companion to yourself? Loneliness is really a wonderful companion that can show us so much about ourselves and others. Loneliness will give you the greatest chance of ever having a beautiful relationship with another person.

If you put a couple in a room together, those two people, as the only creators in that room, have the power to create a literal heaven between those four walls. So why do so many people create a hell? Let's simplify and remove one of the people. Even one person, alone in a room will often create a living hell for themselves. They will fill the space with their doubts, fears, addictions, blame, worries and desperation. Have you ever been that person? Being alone will show you who you really are, and if you cannot get-on positively as the sole master of your space in that room alone, then you can absolutely forget about it after you add another person. You had better start practicing being happy when you are alone.

Nothing is worse than being constricted in passion, love, and raw potential, when life could be so rich and beautiful by working as a cooperative team with a loving companion. Not having a solid partner in your life can intensify life's struggle. You can only go so far alone. No one person can do it all. But to get a solid partner you have to be a solid partner. You can only attract and keep what you are, or lower. You must elevate yourself to the level of your higher hopes. Sure. You want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive. But a relationship is like a bridge where you meet other people half-way. That means if you want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive, you have to be touching, inspiring and bring the fire of your aliveness to the union of your companionship. You must live what you wish to receive. Because we are always growing, life compounds and magnifies what is already within us. If you are miserable you grow in misery, and if you are joyful you grow in joy. This makes self-love the perfect soil from which to grow love.

"At the innermost core of all loneliness is a deep and powerful yearning for union with one's lost self." — Brendan Francis

You see, people have some really crazy ideas about love, friends and relationships. They have the absurd belief that their friends, children, family, lovers and companions can make them happy. Love is by, for and about you, and it never had anything to do with another person. The love you bring to the table, is a way of living that you have been practicing in your life — and that love can be needy, controlling, selfish, conditional and desperate, or it can be confident, open, giving, unconditional, and secure. Your love capability is something you cultivate within yourself. Loving is like any other art-craft where the masters have carefully practiced and where the novices have languished in their carelessness. This is why some relationships look so beautiful, and some look so tragic — beauty belongs to the thoughtful; tragedy to the neglectful.

"The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness." — Neale Donald Walsch

If your life is like a tragedy it is because you have been neglecting something — most likely yourself. All those happy people you see, they know something you don't know. They know about a balanced type of relationship where they are selfish for the sake of others. You have to learn how to take care of yourself. Who you need, is you. It was always about, and for, you. You're the one you've been looking for; you complete you. If you have never found yourself, the best place to look is in your loneliness, and rock-bottom is even better. Quit looking "out there" for that magical "something" or "someone" to come and rescue you from your tragic loneliness. Do you want to know what people love? People love passion; they love people who are happy in themselves; they love people who are going places and doing things; people love people who are confident and secure, but most importantly people love most those who love themselves. Love is not about finding the right person, but about being the right person. If you get love and attention that you are not ready for, it will not fulfill you the way you imagine. We sustain our loving relationships by loving ourselves. We are only fulfilled by love when we ourselves are filled with love. If you want the perfect relationship, start with the one you have with yourself. If you make it right with yourself, it will be right with the whole world.

"Pause and remember— Love is available to you the moment you are available to love." — Jenni Young

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Have you ever considered another type of loneliness; a good and healthy, happy loneliness?
If you are bored it is only because you are a boring person.
Loneliness is really a wonderful companion that can show us so much about ourselves and others.
Loneliness will give you the greatest chance of ever having a beautiful relationship with another person.
Being alone will show you who you really are, and if you cannot get-on positively as the sole master of your space in that room alone, then you can absolutely forget about it after you add another person.
To get a solid partner you have to be a solid partner. You can only attract and keep what you are, or lower.
Sure. You want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive. But a relationship is like a bridge where you meet other people half-way. That means if you want to be touched, inspired and made to feel alive, you have to be touching, inspiring and bring the fire of your aliveness to the union of your companionship.
You must live what you wish to receive.
Because we are always growing, life compounds and magnifies what is already within us.
If you are miserable you grow in misery, and if you are joyful you grow in joy.
Self-love the perfect soil from which to grow love.
People have some really crazy ideas about love, friends and relationships. They have the absurd belief that their friends, children, family, lovers and companions can make them happy.
Love is by, for and about you, and it never had anything to do with another person.
Your love capability is something you cultivate within yourself.
Loving is like any other art-craft where the masters have carefully practiced and where the novices have languished in their carelessness.
This is why some relationships look so beautiful, and some look so tragic — beauty belongs to the thoughtful; tragedy to the neglectful.
If your life is like a tragedy it is because you have been neglecting something — most likely yourself.
You have to learn how to take care of yourself. Who you need, is you. It was always about, and for, you.
You're the one you've been looking for; you complete you.
If you have never found yourself, the best place to look is in your loneliness, and rock-bottom is even better.
People love most those who love themselves.
Love is not about finding the right person, but about being the right person.
If you get love and attention that you are not ready for, it will not fulfill you the way you imagine. We sustain our loving relationships by loving ourselves. We are only fulfilled by love when we ourselves are filled with love.
If you want the perfect relationship, start with the one you have with yourself.
If you make it right with yourself, it will be right with the whole world.
Because we are always growing, life compounds and magnifies what is already in us. If you are miserable you grow in misery, and if you are joyful you grow in joy. This makes self-love the perfect soil from which to grow love.

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Melissa Winters - facebook.com
You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else...

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Katie Price - facebook.com
Aloneness is a great teacher, when alone you discover what you thought were your likes and loves were actually someone else's. How vulnerable we are to outside influences. Know Thy Self can be and arduous process but also liberating.

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Carmen Paris-hunter - facebook.com
Incredible messages of truth. Well written & received. Namaste

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Dea Mandir - facebook.com
Beautifully said

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Lisa Kerris - facebook.com
Everyone needs to read and understand this. I know it is long but it is sooo worth it!!

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Joanne Candelario - facebook.com
Nothing else I can say.. This one really struck me! So true!

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Robin Bender - facebook.com
Easier said then to do when you were never taught how to love ourselves ....

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Ali Walen - facebook.com
Well put!

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Wow..awesome.

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Steve Ellis - facebook.com
SHARING today

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Linda Alcala - facebook.com
Absolutely!! Shared on Sobriety By The Grace Of God

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Sergio Barrero - facebook.com
Agree 100%

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Lina Kaneva - facebook.com
amen!!

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Marla Owens - facebook.com
Perfect timing for me to receive this message - thank you.

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Keira Trager - facebook.com
Wow. Just wow Wow-:)

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Sharon Tatum - facebook.com
Even God commands us to love ourselves.

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Mary Louise Gordon-Toledo - facebook.com
Yes, enjoy yourself and if you can not be your true self when you are with whomever the company that you are in, DON'T allow that company to be repetitive if at all possible or keep extremely minimal, as you will waste your precious time and even your whole life ...if you marry someone just to avoid being alone. If you do not love who you are when you are together, A slow death for sure, as the soul grows very dark aching each time your joy for life is quenched. So fill your cup with laughter and affection and sights that you will remember with anticipation!

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Luann Wiles - facebook.com
Thanks

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The essence of life - facebook.com
<3 Shared

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Jacinta Dowling - facebook.com
Well that says it all. And its so true.

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Thein Mozhi - facebook.com
Vry true... Dependency leads to expectatns nd dat to disappointments... Gud dat to be selfdependent nd luk into the inner strength of oneself to feel complete nd confident by loving ourself...

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Connie Montoya - facebook.com
So true

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Cheri Vitillo - facebook.com
Love

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Geraldine Planter - facebook.com
Wow identity with a lot of this.

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Janet Ferguson - facebook.com
Blah Blah Blah.....I was bored to tears after the second paragraph.....geeeez

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Neng Virtucio - facebook.com
Very inspiring

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Positivity is the Key to Life - facebook.com
thank you Bryant McGill sharing

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Heather Hamilton - facebook.com
Beautifully said!

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Lisa Garner - facebook.com
So true

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Cassie Carter - facebook.com
True xx

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Sheila Mae Doong - facebook.com
A great message to keep.

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Tnx.

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Milagros Morales - facebook.com
<3

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Matt Benedetti - facebook.com
Thanks abbi

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Melinda Elliott - facebook.com
Yes but sometimes u give the half way and more and the.person ur with becomes selfish and lies betrayal no respect then ur left empty and hurt and alone with no answers .

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Geraldine Butterly Gallagher - facebook.com
So true x

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Laurie Moors - facebook.com
Practice makes perfect! Time to get with it.

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Jennifer Van Nort - facebook.com
Good thoughts...need to put into practice...

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Kiran Sehgal - facebook.com
This was much needed.... A Million Thanks!

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Catriona Kennedy - facebook.com
True, if u dont love yourself who else will!!!

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Molly Ng - facebook.com
is very true

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Mary Grace Lockney - facebook.com
This is full of so much truth and inspiration!

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Ray Arroyo - facebook.com
Marvelous, aww inspiring.

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Wow

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Nicky Tanti - facebook.com
Amen

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<3

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Terry Vanderlaan - facebook.com
Totally

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Shared <3

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Shriyash Patil - facebook.com
Super quote

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Unconditional Love - facebook.com
Perfect!

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Marie Carter - facebook.com
Omgggg so true!

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Jackie Oldham Magee - facebook.com
Great article!!

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Bob Rush - facebook.com
So on point!

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Melanie Raposas - facebook.com
So so true very inspiring.luv urself' first bfore others.thanks

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Jojo Roa - facebook.com
To be happy is to blame and accept what you've done to yourself and others,either you make good or not. The best enemy is self denial when there's a mistake and shows when you're right.Anyway.we are the beneficiary of everythng we do. It' s the true sense of a real life.

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Rosalia Gaspe - facebook.com
okey

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Cuca Prado - facebook.com
Amen so true !!

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Pearl Duran - facebook.com
Very inspiring.. love it!

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Eric Matthew D'Amico - facebook.com
But...but...but...I can't date myself D:

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Thalia Liza Quino Beltran - facebook.com
yuh

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Sandra Abadie - facebook.com
Amen

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Paula Keegan Hamlin - facebook.com
Good article

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Vivi Andy - facebook.com
Thanks.....

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Mirelle De Fatima Wittig - facebook.com
I work with myself every minute ... But I'm like a cat .... A lil lazy to start and very finicky and sometimes ..... Frisky !!!!! Meawwwwww. ....mpurrrrr !!!!!! He !

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Dawn Oconnor - facebook.com
It's harder than it sounds!!!!

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Mary Zelinsky - facebook.com
SO VERY VERY TRUE

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Roberts Bocande - facebook.com
SO TRUE.

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Haroon Gill - facebook.com
yes its true

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Fawzia Khan - facebook.com
Very true

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Isaiah-Bazilio Apwa - facebook.com
It was the best thing that happened to me XxX

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Karen Oldacre - facebook.com
So very true

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Ned Arbogast - facebook.com
I have a love hate relationship with myself.

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Gloria Kimberly - facebook.com
Real talk.

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Everina E Pulliam - facebook.com
I like this, If can enjoy your own company, how can you enjoy the company of others.: )

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Bahar Tavakolian - facebook.com
doesn't work all the timehave tried it...

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Everina E Pulliam - facebook.com
I meant can't enjoy your own company. sorry for the typo

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Jessica Torres - facebook.com
AMEN

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John Pipes Preston - facebook.com
I say it all the time!!! If yu don't love urself no one will!!!

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Jean Roberts - facebook.com
Amen

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Alexnder Faraz - facebook.com
ah really.

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Dana Herald - facebook.com
Yeah

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<3

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<3

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Louise Randell - facebook.com
AMEN!!!!!!

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Sandro Poeira - facebook.com
AMEM

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Bill Brooks - facebook.com
tough road for me.

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I just need tht.

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Paulina Sosa - facebook.com
*snaps fingers!!!

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Deborah Enne Krug - facebook.com
Hello... Amen

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Lois Skvarek - facebook.com
Yes

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Shreya Sarkar James Dee - facebook.com
<3

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Melissa Lam - facebook.com
Thanks. Yourself with God. It's Awesome!!!!!!

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Patricia Holton - facebook.com
Yeppers most definitely. Amen

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Carrie Sherrod Franklin - facebook.com
Amen! C;

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Joyce Olson - facebook.com
working on it!

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Linda Mistretta - facebook.com
amen

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Darren Christopher - facebook.com
James Sprintall No relationship is perfect. It's all about picking the perfect partner to go through hell with

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Robin Wright-Nichols - facebook.com
Amen!

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Ann Sue Laughren - facebook.com
Correct ; great, true

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Donna Dapello Schrader - facebook.com
If you aren't happy with yourself, you will never be happy with someone else.

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Leyla Crescente - facebook.com
I love that

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Aaron Diamond - facebook.com
true story

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YESssssssssss !!!!!!

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Anni Kruse - facebook.com
so beautyful...

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CandaceFaith Johnston - facebook.com
great

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Sheila Mcfarlane - facebook.com
Aw this is beautiful & so, so true. Yhank you for sharing x

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Raquel Bajado Tegio - facebook.com
true

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Vicki Rivera - facebook.com
Amen

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Lizette Zuniga - facebook.com
Absolutely. Without that nothing will fall into place!

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Jan Langford - facebook.com
From my experience learning to be alone and liking your own company is a life lesson, which makes you stronger and more able to face the world. It ain't easy though!

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Peggy Deringer - facebook.com
Thank you for sharing. Bryant McGill ... Exactly what I needed to read and at the perfect time.

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Carmen Montoya - facebook.com
Thanks I needed that message

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Heather Nathaniel - facebook.com
Yesum !!!! work in progress !!!

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Carmen Dz - facebook.com
It all starts with the man or woman in the mirror. So true.

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Paul Fraser - facebook.com
true,

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Eva DeSalvo - facebook.com
You know it!

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Eve Ronquillo Orolfo - facebook.com
So so true!

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Roberta Rowland Goodman - facebook.com
True.......

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Nie Cristal - facebook.com
Good write-up! Thanks for sharing

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Bertie M Worth - facebook.com
this is great

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Ashley Covey Zoë Hjelm - facebook.com
I met this man in person at the ups store when I was at Sullivan

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Ho Sze Yen - facebook.com
I love this! Thank you

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Ashley Covey - facebook.com
Nicole Covey <3

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Lizzy Lopez - facebook.com
exactly

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A Journey of Faith - facebook.com
A Lovely share

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Darrel Ling - facebook.com
Nie Cristal <3

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Nelson Monserrate Nabo - facebook.com
thank you!

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Linda Kay Scott - facebook.com
Such an eye opener! Much to incorporate into my mind & life!

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Rose Monaco Russell - facebook.com
Beautiful

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Melody Ann Herring McNeely - facebook.com
Sharing

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LeeAnne Leppelman - facebook.com
I think it was my Aunt Shirley that said to one of my boys that "only boring people get bored" and I remember thinking how true that is! After all these years of living by that rule...because I am NOT a boring person I will NEVER be bored...it was cool to see it in print

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Robert N Kimberly Cameron-Rispoli Jr. - facebook.com
You ALWAYS START WITH the one In THE MIRROR!!! Perfect

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Renee Infield-Kohl - facebook.com
Amen!!!

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Olivia Bright - facebook.com
I beleive in these words .

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Olivia Bright - facebook.com
Very true:-)

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Cheryl Negri - facebook.com
Wow. I needed to read this...

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Nitin Shah - facebook.com
Awesome

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Neela Pillai - facebook.com
Profound words and makes such an interesting read .There's so much one needs to learn and it starts with knowing yourself first .It starts with you to be sum of The Universe

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Natasha Powell - facebook.com
Luv this !

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Anshul Singh - facebook.com
thnx bro deeply

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Lisa Wishoun - facebook.com
That was absolutely perfect! Thanks.

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Carol Warner - facebook.com
So true so true

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Leonard Syrinek Glade - facebook.com
I finally found myself.

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Luisa Garcia - facebook.com
Deep

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Amar Sharma - facebook.com
But it hurts when u r alone......whatever the situation is.

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Michelle Delmodes - facebook.com
I do not love myself. I was hated as a child and learnt to hate myself. I wish I could love myself, but I fear more for my child

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Habiba Dughman - facebook.com
Its soooo true

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Joy Meena - facebook.com
So true...valuable perfect....

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Don Sam - facebook.com
I really like dis

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Zita Selleret - facebook.com
Awsome Thank You Thank You Thank You x x x x

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Michelle Barker - facebook.com
that was deep and a perfect story.

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Barbara Day - facebook.com
Yes, thank you for the great reminder ...to love and know oneself before we can give love to others. ....meditation at least once daily helps us on this journey! Love always ♥♥♥.

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Jacinta Clare Boland - facebook.com
Love it

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Kirstie Henderson - facebook.com
Very inspiring

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Phyllis Derrick - facebook.com
That's what is wrong today....you have to love and value yourself to love and value others.

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Nicola Cunningham - facebook.com
This is awesome and well worth the long read. Totally enjoyed every bit of it. Sooo inspiring.

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Carlina Hogan - facebook.com
Thanks this is so true

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Theresa Garrison-Castro - facebook.com
Inspirational!

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Keeley Staples - facebook.com
Sarah Grace read this

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Lorrie Workman - facebook.com
This is awesome!!!!

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Lois Roberson - facebook.com
A lot of meaning....deep stuff

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Elaine Ferguson - facebook.com
i understand all of what you say and will share this with others. i want to get my life on track. its never to late.

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Tammy Coté - facebook.com
Wow! Thanks for reminding me of how it all unfolds...I needed to be reminded and I'm getting there slowly...baby steps...

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Kisha Johnson - facebook.com
Wow!!!

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Soul Speaking - facebook.com
Totally support this perception too!

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Trish Murray - facebook.com
Shared on Sober and Happy......

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Gail Tatum - facebook.com
I love this!

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Ilse M Hauter - facebook.com
as jy vrede met jouself het, gelukkig in jouself is kan jy baie makliker met ander regkom.

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Martine Coremans - facebook.com
Thanks !

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Prakash Chhatpar - facebook.com
in this world nobody will come to help when you are alone all the relation of wife ,lovers husbamd mother daughter are false only belive in god at time of deadth is true true friends are those who stand with you at time of despair.

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Carolyn Osborne Russell - facebook.com
So True, If U Don't Love Yourself How Can U Love Another !!

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Chuck Bensch - facebook.com
Great word

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Jazz M. Baltazar - facebook.com
Amazing thought. ..it inspires me. .thanks

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Angie Foo - facebook.com
I have to look deep into myself. Definitely i have to learn and become a better person and to be a better companion.

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Twyla Haley - facebook.com
Amazing

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Sheila Trice - facebook.com
Wow! So poignant. A pearl of wisdom.

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Nay Yee Ba Swe - facebook.com
Very powerful and effective. Thank u.

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Janice Nolasco - facebook.com
thanks for thebeautiful reminder. such an inspiration.

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Cariana Stroud - facebook.com
Thanks Bryant, very profound !

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Carleen Calistri-Hill - facebook.com
Wow. Nice. Refreshing. Inspiring. Truth.

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Karina Gausina - facebook.com
catch some new points today

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Antonio Torres - facebook.com
Me Luv! YeahEEE!

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Hana Luettringhaus - facebook.com
Thank you

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Ellia Noel - facebook.com
yes

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Carol A Manzo-Pelosi - facebook.com
God first then myself !!

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Lazaro Gapo - facebook.com
yeah for ya guys not for me

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Patty Peterson - facebook.com
Yep..love your selves

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Mrinal Patil - facebook.com
this is realy inspiring for me

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Laurie Ann Sharpe - facebook.com
Absolutely True

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Pamela Estremera - facebook.com
Yes..working on that! Until then..no relationship for me..

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Farhan Ansari - facebook.com
for whom...?

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Elizabeth Izzo - facebook.com
indeed sharing

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Monica Mendoza - facebook.com
TRUE!

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Leah King - facebook.com
Good plan!

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Ghislaine Constance Lagier - facebook.com
I WANT THE SAME !!

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Frida Willis - facebook.com
Been there done that. Now where the hell is mr Right?

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Ghislaine Constance Lagier - facebook.com
I AM CLEAN !!

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Ghislaine Constance Lagier - facebook.com
YES I DO !

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Pat Dunn - facebook.com
I like that!

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Patricia Clarke - facebook.com
L*O*V*E

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Jette C W Madsen - facebook.com
god idé

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Kate Turner - facebook.com
yeah..

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Sharon Smith Seewalt - facebook.com
Thank you

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Mary Bell - facebook.com
No help there.

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Christian Dave Necesario - facebook.com
hahahaha this is a great one, the answers and thoughts i have has already been said and i relate on it. And i know too that its hard to be alone but alone its self has a very deep meaning. You will know who u are and what you are and it will show you what you really want only if you understand it and pay attention about it. This post is very true, TRUE HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN, DO NOT SEEK IT WITHOUT.

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My Prince's Gift - facebook.com
Share about life, love, grief, healing for all Sharing, thank you ~Laurel

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Gayla Logan - facebook.com
Powerful!

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Nancy Hanlon - facebook.com
So very well written! Good for everyone to read, especially people who are living alone & no family around! Nancy h.

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Jacquemae Hopper-Gibson - facebook.com
Wll put

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Hazel Gifford - facebook.com
so true how can you love someone if you dont love yourself

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Luis Felipe Gonzalez Gomez - facebook.com
It´s the only way

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Yolanda Sandstrom - facebook.com
Absolutely

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Margaret Rizzo - facebook.com
Amen n Thankyou.

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Sangita Chattopadhyay - facebook.com
How amazingly put in wrds.....thanks fr such a butiful message

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Jillian Bawden - facebook.com
100% true! Then hang out with other people that have a great relationship with themselves. Have a romantic relationship with such a soul as well! Life is so enjoyable this way

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Preeti Sharan Srivastava - facebook.com
Beautiful message.

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Maria Veronica - facebook.com
Love it! thanks for sharing!

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Deanne Campbell - facebook.com
Love this truth. It's vital to make peace with loving who you are. God makes no mistakes; man does. If someone is struggling with self-love, they lash out at everyone. Sound counsel...

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Kate Dickman - facebook.com
Absolutely

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Shweta Tiwari - facebook.com
Thnku to guide me sir

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Michael Ohnhaus - facebook.com
Perfect timing

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Jocelyn Murray - facebook.com
Love this message, but how does 1 learn to have a relationship with 1s self

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DrKuku Barbara Connally - facebook.com
YUP!

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Lyn Bentoy - facebook.com
So true... love the msg.. thnx fr sharing..

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Marionette Marais - facebook.com
Wonderful and true

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Philip Makoor - facebook.com
This is very inspiring

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ThuNyein Aye Dimple - facebook.com
Austin bro read this

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William Martin - facebook.com
You post the most heart warming quotes . ANGEL!

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Melony Zackey Botha - facebook.com
so true.

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Maria Liakou-Pope - facebook.com
SOOO TRUE

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Rashed Zaman - facebook.com
Absolutely.

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Lily Zard Aboujaoude - facebook.com
True

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Juliette Heim - facebook.com
True!

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Raja Srihari - facebook.com
Prasad nice one

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Lynn Harrison - facebook.com
Well said and very thought provoking!

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Holly Mccarthy - facebook.com
True except the perfect part, that wont happen period, we are all human, no 100% for anyone..........

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Eni Gobo Belic - facebook.com
It would be much easier if someone alse is responsible for the way we feel..

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Nandita Bharadwaj - facebook.com
Love yourself .. But don't try to judge yourself so hard.. Loneliness is not happy lonely .. You are unhappy and lonely.. Just be in the present .. And not try to control everthing .. That will save a lot on the heart ..

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Jeanne von Lindern - facebook.com
Thank You for this very clear teaching ! I whole Hearted agree !

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Prakash Solanki - facebook.com
Absolutely right......

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Marsella Gonzalez-Goodman - facebook.com
true!

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Suzie Baxter - facebook.com
TOTALLY!!!!

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Beth McArdle Sanborn - facebook.com
yep yep yep

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Trisha Slade - facebook.com
Every time !!

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Kambiz Torabizadeh - facebook.com
One of a kind.

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Gavriliu Cornelia - facebook.com
With me have all time...

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Jennifer Pomento Tolipas - facebook.com
Hands up!

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Fran Hastings - facebook.com
WELL SAID!

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Nicola Hendry Tash Burke - facebook.com
xx

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Phyllis Butikofer - facebook.com
So very inspiring and true!

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Margaret Stewart - facebook.com
yes i do believe its very true, and i know wwithout a doubt my confidence and sense of humour is coming back,and i also know that i will have to stop worrying about a few people who are telling lies, learn to hold my head up nad move on.

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Mary Flynn - facebook.com
Very well said.




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