Part 1. Managing Your Energy And Associations As The Gatekeeper Of Your Own Life.


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Buse Berksun
PTSD was what I had been suffering from because of the type of therapists who forced me to disobey myself and disrespect myself and sey yes to what is not right. And I had to figure it out myself and solve. and I think your comments go well along with my post PTSD too. So if people say it's not like that with mental illness, there's a huge possibility that they might not be recognizing their own mental illness:) and this is not an insult really we may all be mentally ill too from a certain pt of view lol
Mary Hrubar Latoroco
I believe this because I am so fearful anxious and sad
Caren Young Oakley
That's amazing Wendi!! I'm super proud of you! Keep it up, one day at a time! :)
Wendi Lyn
Caren Young Oakley, I have 8 and 1/2 years. My life has changed in a dramatic and positive way! Keep moving forward!
Judy Pirika
Well said Mr McGill every thing you have said is true
Judy Pirika
Sometimes for your own well being you gotta cut people out of you life
Hope Smith
Happy thanksgiving from Jackson michigan
Birthe Lund
❤️ ❤️ ❤️ tak
Àine Nash
Best advice have ever received. 💜 know how to adjust behaviour accordingly now. Be who I am when alone . 💜💜💜 it. So simple to remember. Best simple reminder ever!
Àine Nash
You are 1000 % right. Rascals will be rascals. Had no luck with aine family again today. Will stop. Was never going to succeed. In time would only have given a little more each day. Slowly eroding my boundaries without even me knowing. So true what you said...Nobody can do that. We are all only human. I guess I had to give it one last shot. Already family not liking my new boundary line. Am getting some gentle backlash...Will keep line firm now. It was this backlash that you mentioned that made me unconsciously remove the boundary line again/previously. Only now realise without being selfish would have jumped BACK on that merrygoround again. Eventually ending up despondent and dispirited again. Toxic is toxic, wherher family, ex spouse, ex fiancé,,old friend etc. Best way to make the room I need for all things positive is to purge the toxicity. This saddens me somewhat but will be saddest if don't keep cutting those cords. I'm so glad I tried one last time as now have no regrets cutting. I can say to myself I tried my very best, so can walk away without guilt or shame for leaving them stand on their own two feet. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Nobody is strong enough to withstand any level of toxicity in their lives. Believe now even a 1% level of toxicity will eventually spread like a virus or cancer until one is terminable. Will try remember it that way. I'd never invite a cell of cancer into my body so why do it to my soul. Was busy being a very silly girl yesterday! Not so silly today. Hoping to be a little less silly tomorrow so thinking cutting them gently will be best for me. Need to maybe switch off that empathic vibe for those that wouldn't throw some water on me if I was on fire! 😀
Carmen Prieto
He try to destroy my life and destroying what I was bless for evil people like him should not even love he really destroy my mind my heart my trust. Evil devil people should not even lives on this earth I thought I had my soul mate. But I was wrong. Evil ads hoes.
Carmen Prieto
This is so true I been around neg. People my ex cz me a night mare thought I new about him how off a fool I was to him. I found out so many bad things about him he was insane. A piece off shot like that should not even lives on this earth. I rather being alone then to have a bad apiece off shot living home with
Juliette Johnson
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Cynthia ILa
Wow so true hun! We must stay away ! Phew!
Carissa Arnold
Cynthia Ila yes yes we must.
Chloe Alcuaz Viray
How i wish GOD will give me the strenght to move on....so tired and don't want anymore to be slave...SO HELP ME GOD IN JESUS NAME...THANKS...
Deborah Fulghum Vego
Yes...learned that the hard way n took way to long but finally got it!!!
Carolyn Bowman
Thank you :)
Kazza Baker
Very well said, I'm looking of my self now I've been through a lot with my cancer and I'm trying to get my life back to normal,so many people taken for granted I'm am do sick of it ,I'm going to live for me now........as I'm started to feel unwell again with stress
Kazza Baker
Well said,I've gone through a lot of pain and I think people don't need me so I'm getting on with my life most people brings me down so much and it's only now I have reliased it as I'm am feeling unwell again
Serenity Wilson
I think it is, but I'm not sure so please tell me, is it even ok for a momma to cut off their 18 year old daughter after she has physically and verbally assaulted that momma 2 Thanksgiving holidays in a row in front of her young siblings because that daughter is not capable of releasing the past mistakes of the momma? I feel so guilty, but I have had to let my past go for the sole purpose of maintaining my sanity, recovery and forward movement; but my oldest child seems to get high off her anger and her desire to punish me and keep me stuck in the past just has no place in my present or future. Am I wrong? Criticism for my choice comes from many angles, especially being told I'm a bad mom for giving up on her?
Power to Love
Sharing for my tribe with love ❤️
Tammy Jones
I let my sister, her daughter and husband move in with us . it was supposed to be for a couple weeks. Turned out to be five months. The daughter was mean (21). Hateful and would call her mom f*** ing stupid. My sisters husband had died left them nothing. Then the daughter got to treating my family like that. Wouldn't clean, cook wash her husband's clothes ,,, Nothing . One day she was going to cuss me out on the phone. I told them to get out by the weekend. ( In That five months they had passed up many Rentals, never good enough.)/funny how they had a rental the next day!! But to my mom I'm the bad person.. Oh there dog peed on my downstairs carpet,so I had to have that steamed cleaned. Tried to help and it squished me. 😖
Àine Nash
My mam, who I love more than life...someone I look to and try and emulate her kindness, compassion and empathy has taught me to put myself in another's shoes and try to understand why they react so angrily and bitterly towards everyone and life...I have always been able to do that. Once I can understand I don't feel bad. Lies, manipulation and feigned love are what have ruined me in the past. WILL ALWAYS TRUST MY GUT NOW. WAS ALWAYS RIGHT MOSTLY. Will honour my true feelings no matter whom I upset or offend. If I don't I know I'll end up playing a part for the sake of another AGAIN. And am really not that stupid. I've more letters after my name than most. BBS 1.1, MAac, ACA, AITI.....love learning and stopped 11 years ago because it made others feel inferior. I'm planning doing a PHD in Metaphysics and also studying to become a Counsellor and stuff the begrudgers. I don't care any longer if it intimidates others....I don't care now what anyone but myself thinks of me! Am learning everyday. And try to be better today than I was yesterday only. Not comparing myself to others or being afraid that others will compare themselves to me. That is their issue and I can't do a thing for them on that. They must be willing to change. One of my favourite sayings is "you can only lead a horse to water" 😀 wishing you all a great day. Warmest wishes from Ireland. 👑👑👑
Àine Nash
My biggest problem is that I will never give up on those I love. Will always try and show them the light. It's programmed into my DNA....my special needs siblings taught me to love unconditionally. It's who I am. .It's what differentiates me from others....BUT that said I've learned the boundaries lesson. Àine Nash won't ever be broken by anyone EVER again. It's my promise to myself. And you reminded me I MUST love myself first. Above ALL others. Massive gratitude and respect, love and light to you all. My Royal family 💜💡💫💥🌚👑👑👑👑
Tara Waller Hood
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Donna Boccia
exactly! stand my ground. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Donna Boccia
al my life until now, they controled me. definately a art to keepping these type of arms way.
Bryant McGill
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Bryant McGill
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Donna Marie Haney
Hi
Sue Keffer
Be clear about what you want in the people who you surround yourself with. Be even more clear about what you don't want. Never compromise yourself because of loneliness, guilt, or the feeling that you need to save someone. Take care of YOU !! Create an amazing life for yourself 😃
Caroline Unwin
Loyal Royal👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑💞
Caroline Unwin
At last I found out your name 🍀👋
Pieter N Sofia Venter
This is very true.
DeAnn Johnston
Anxious to hear your comments ! I get pulled down every day/week. Tired of all my words being twisted; or deference or transference being made.
Ashley Robertson
Even the Good Samaritan didn't take the beaten-down man into his home.
Tin-tin L. Baculina
hope to see you both here in the Philippines!!!an inspiration!!!
Caren Young Oakley
Way to go, Rachel!!! That's awesome!!
Heather Jarman
Thanks for 'coming back"..Thank you!
May Walker
Got that right!👀👍🏽
Jeri Layton
It's bullying!
Jeri Layton
Lol! Good point!
Jeri Layton
You are putting words and thought patterns out there that can help anyone who wants to grow.
Jeri Layton
People with PTSD are still just people who can be better than yesterday.
Barbie Lopez
Hi Bryant
Suzanne Miles
Love the stranger acknowledgements genuine hugs high five smile it's genuine I love that 👑
Happy Marcha Bandiala
Bryant McGill thank you very much to your nice message,i hope you teach me how to more strong.God bless you more power
Lourdes Liwanag
Good morning ... from the Phils.
James Vernon Seal
Royal royal Scotland that's my inherit
Suzanne Miles
👑💃💜👑great conversation today thank you
Suzanne Miles
Unstoppable is a wonderful place to discover I call it jump into the jet stream of your life and off you go
Danny Ramos
What are 3 steps u have became successful in life I look up to u
Jenny J Johnson
I am a good person and I set boundaries what I can't ha dle is someone who can't get on the level of ALL walks of life so disappointed
Suzanne Miles
It's not easy to let go especially of family and the deep roots planted there but you have to let go in order to have space for the new to come in 👑
James Vernon Seal
It doesn't matter who the f*** I am I can be your worst nightmare
Suzanne Miles
I want a different type of life and yes I've written a book but you think my father or sisters celebrate it ah no but gee I've got so many beautiful people who are excited fur me and that's where my energy goes
Jeri Layton
I was! I don't think I have missed many, 1! 👑👑👑👑👑
Michelle Rae Fino
I have been blessed to have found you two. Thank-you. 👸
Jeri Layton
These meetings are not structured outlined snd practiced. We are the Royal Court doing dinner chatting, learning and growing together. We can ramble it's ok. Stay and learn with us.
Happy Marcha Bandiala
Amen
Sondra Rankin
Absolutely!!!
Jan Coak
Narcissistic person.
Mherz Ngayawon Manglib
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NanCy Oquendo
Let there be light !! The screen went dark
NanCy Oquendo
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Jan Coak
Thanks for wonderful people like you. You can help a lot of people, like myself who was in an abusivesistic
Jeri Layton
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Theresa Schweisthal
No I have not.
Jeri Layton
I have the flu!! Poor Jeri! 😟
Eleonora Serravillo-Graci
Toxic can also be lethal.
Jerrene LaPointe
So very true and so good to remember!
Àine Nash
What about a mighty majestic Royal?
Kathleen Bristol Connolly
I think sometimes people try to be more specific with you is because they are in desperate need to talk to someone out their own experience. You can't be that for them. I hope and pray they can get the supportive resources they need for their specific circumstance. You shine the light within the darkness Bryant. Sometimes you infinite the beginning of the changes they need to make. :)
Jeri Layton
Yay! You are back!
Jerrene LaPointe
I need to listen to this one for sure. Thanks Bryant your such a blessing. =) thanks for sharing all that you do.
Renata J. Cygan
December 10 is my court date for default hearing.
Àine Nash
I am Royal 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑 👑
Remzi Musovich
hello bryant
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Yeah 👑
Itzel Red
Kaitlyn Frey
Sunshine J Cortez
Yes I truly agree
Michelle Wigley-Omans
You complete you..
Jolie Burow
LOL Jlo!
Jolie Burow
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Jlo Moonbeam
Love this .. Need more right now 💜 impatient much lol
Yhe Dii
💜👏...from Indonesia
MikeNessa AmyRose JoeyJames
Yes everything is all true. Welfare and like that are suppost to help you get up until you can do things on your own. Cuz that to me is more for the ones that has a disabled and that are sick for life that they mended the assistance more cuz they can't bring in the income. If your feeling sorr for yourself life is not going to handle thing for you .you have to set your need to do first and then put it in perspective on what you can do for you and how you can do something about it. Cuz think in that life is going to be easy and given .no only you can make that happen. Don't depend on others to keep doing it for you. I went through that 24 years old had a toddler and pregnant the same time and my half I slept up with in that two years i snap out of depression and i got out of the programs and worl amd applied on my own for yous cuz setting and waiting for my half to snap out it wouldn't work. So i did it and you have to hve the willpower to pull yourself out and put your selfworth forst to get better for you.
Flipper SurfGiant
Does anyone believe that a friendship that has a falling out can come back stronger?
Linda Beasley
I so agree it has cost me family, however I can't take fake people, people that smile in your face and talk awful about you behind your back.
Remzi Musovich
and BRYANT would be saying who is ROYAL here
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Now I understand more clear !! I was exposing myself to toxic people I never knew I had until now . Time to forgive move on and leave the toxic people behind .
Sandra Kostka
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Eleonora Serravillo-Graci
Limit your exposure.
Silvia Bianco
Right on Sue Keffer! You are never lonely when you're happy being alone. Even in relationship I savor my time alone.
Liberata Ford
Im,
Lynn Dailey
You two are frozen. Happy Thanksgiving!! I am so thankful for these FB videos. Thank you!
Sandra Kostka
💗 & good vibes to all you amazing royals! Have a terrific evening! Stay positive ☺ 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Melissa Loftis
Still not refreshing. FB says unknown error occurred.
Nichole Krebs Finn
Same with me...... Can't get any. Signing off . Have a great evening royals👑
Michelle Rae Fino
Thank-you🦃
Helene Kutz
I'm very grateful for this topic tonight! I was just talking about finding balance and about how I should handle people who are toxic to me! Thank you both so much for all you do to reach out!
Michelle Wigley-Omans
You can best help others from a position of strength, not weakness.
Michelle Kelly
Guys, click here.... https://www.facebook.com/bryantmcgill/videos/10153775250887743/?notif_t=live_video They are live again
April Drake
Happy Thanksgiving as well.👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑💗👸🏼🌈🎼🌹
Tin-tin L. Baculina
I love those people who treated me badly because they just prove how tough and strong I am!those toxic people needs more love and attention,so pity on them and I'm happy coz I'm not one of them,,I love what God's bring me here on Earth so I'm happy!
KM McCormick
No feed
Charmin Jackson-Turner
Wow, I like that, true.
Kathy Prince Stein
Lost you
Normooesser Gooms
I've learnt a lot today,unfortunately the reception has gone so bad. I keep getting cut off,and it's so sad.
Juan Alamag
Recently there was a death in the family and I've long sense cut off family on both sides and I was talked about,it wasn't so much of what they said but it was how they sneakily asked are you going to the funeral knowing what the answer was to that question before asking,and no I didn't attend the funeral because I'm not gonna put myself in an uncomfortable situation where I have to interface with unhealthy toxic family members/people,I'm glad I got to listen to this because I'm gonna really start setting goals and setting stronger boundaries and if it means cutting more people off,the sneaky ones I mentioned so be it,I don't want to choose to have people dragging me down with them no longer,they can't stand it and are forever bringing up old random stuff/subjects that they know are off limits to talk about,I'd rather give that space and time to somebody more uplifting,once again this has helped me in the funk I was in tonight.
Eleonora Serravillo-Graci
Welcome Back.
April Drake
I lost the feed as well. Goodnight to you both, Jenny and Bryant. Hope you have a wonderful beautiful night. Thank you for your time, it is very important and valuable.
Michelle O'Donnell
Last youtube I tried to regain the conversation seven or eight times sad that I can't continue must be a glitch in facebook
Michelle Rae Fino
Happy Thanksgiving royals!!!
Sandro Uomo Attivo
Great lessons reinforced!!!!
Remzi Musovich
Keep those CROWNS COMING
Angela Gardner
I' am learning a lot about myself from you and your so right , so much I should have learned about life already. I will soon be 45 and I've been so inspired by reading your post that is actually become a new part of me and my daily thing. Your blunt and that's OK because your honest. Its healthy andvim grateful
Jennette Oconnor
I'm going to be selfish and take Bryant's inspiring words with me to bed tonight and think about what he and Jenni discussed. Good night Loyal Royals!!! Love to you all💖💖💖💯💯💯👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Patty Gerrissen
Crashed
Sarah Elder
Lost the feed too. Happened last time I tried to watch as well. 😞
Denise Thompson Antonio
You froze
Michelle Rae Fino
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Adrienne Allen
Great share and love the format! Goodnight and god bless
Nora Zoe
Really bad weather here hope I can keep listening.
Kimberly Scott
I totally agree
Victoria Bigham
Broad cast freezes
Janette Z. Standard
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Teri A Fronzi
Lost feed!!
Sue Keffer
Learn to be alone and love it. It can be awkward and weird at first, but the more time that you spend with yourself doing things you like to do the more comfortable you will become. As time goes by you will learn how to really relax in the quiet peacefulness of being alone.
April Drake
I pray for both of your protection tonight. Please know your thoughts and words are very meaningful.
Author Holly Ruttenbur Dickinson
I'm not hearing anything. Are they still off for you all as well?
Brandi Rae Rudder
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Michelle Kelly
I think if you like his page you'll get the notification that he's live!
Lisa McGinty
I unfortunately lost the feed. But what an absolute amazing conversation tonight.. thank you so much to you both
Caren Young Oakley
Yall have a wonderful night!! Love yall!! 👑👑👑👑👑👑
Linda Beasley
Crashed 😭
Sharon Toiber
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Minnie Serrano
I don't know how to take my power, independence, and life back. I've deferred for too long and really...this is not my life.
Sandra Jones
Keeps freezing! Any ideas?😳
Sandro Uomo Attivo
Broadcast keeps dropping out ....
Eleonora Serravillo-Graci
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Jason Smyth
Can you notify when feed resumes, was really interested.
Sana Raees
Comeback plzzz 👑👑👑👑👑
April Drake
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Caren Young Oakley
It's gone! It won't catch up or come back!! 😩😩😩😩😩
Kim Palmer
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Mary Thomas
👑👑👑👑👑👑. Love ya both
Author Holly Ruttenbur Dickinson
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Kevin Morlas
Well i'm always working on my mind, i've realized that people seemed to be more or less deep in their being, their life, their though, as i've realized another dimension, i realized that the more people try to integrate to some mental circle that they finally create, the more they do compromises with theirselves killing life itself that is flowing through them. I realized that i built my personnality, once being younger, always trying to impress, be loved, to accept myself through eyes of others. Even when i was kidding, i was doing so to be socially accepted and admired ! So i go in my deepest unconscious to rewrite my beliefs of my young childhood to change my whole idea of my personnality, to share more with people, be more loving and more full of life to express itself, make the world better by killing this idea of me i was hanging on for too long. Well i'd like to thanks you again (because i'm changing my own environment to be more efficient and productive) and the fact of talking with you, listening to you, to yours quotes and some others people has a really great impact on their change, their life, their world, and it's so fucking beautiful, magnificient, man i can't say it, but go on like that, please. Because the world needs so much that, i can't write it. I've writen long enought :) but make sure that the world is grateful to you, maybe that's the unification of existence. I wish you the best in life, rewards of all kind and to enjoy the maximum experience. Just love because words aren't enough. And you know what's the most beautiful ? Not maybe the most, but the most important for me, that's since i'm a a child, i know that there is something better in this world, something incredible to be found. I knew that life wasn't only about what they say, but something higher, strange that was calling me. I've been looking through magic, esoterism, alchemy, science and quantum mechanics (what i'm studying) and i've been searching through mysteries of this world, since i'm a child. I knew there was something for me waiting, and in my road, i find it with you. Not only with you because it's since a long time i've been searching, but the simply fact that i'm listening to you and that it's rejoincing my work and that little voice in the deepest place of my soul, like if all that humanity was one, is so freakily beautiful. Life is so beautiful... I wish you the best Bryant, and to you Jenni, really. And what's going on by your side ? :D have you go somes projects, some desire, some work in progress or realizations ? What's up in you life and hearts people ? :p except the we are royal project :p
Sophia DeNapoli
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Author Holly Ruttenbur Dickinson
LOL
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Yes we loss them
Lissie Lopez
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Jennette Oconnor
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Leslie Bellaconis
My niece was like brainwashed. He had something negative about everybody. constant drama. Finally had to evict them. But this guy is 38 my niece is 27. Both her parents are deceased. How do you handle these types of narcissistic, oops I mean toxic people?
Lok Lok
I'm glad that i can enjoy my solitude
Heather Richie Cummins
I saw a butterfly in hell today!
April Drake
I agree with you, and it does begin to feel heavy or dark when we allow ourselves to dwell of the negative side for to long.
Author Holly Ruttenbur Dickinson
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Michelle Kelly
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Melody Jarrell
Thank you Bryant, you've helped me a lot
Chad Drennan
Mine has been too 😑
Jolie Burow
Hee hee CROWNS UP 👏 is RIGHT!!!
Jenny J Johnson
I love most of the things you say but what I have realized is, I don't have to agree with everything you say or even be happy about it. I know now that those I aspire to be like are not what I thought they were. No one is perfect, and I am okay with that, but I am a different creature, I feel the pain of all those who are less fortunate. We do not all get to be Bryant the Defiant. You are a great guy just not the guy for me. Good luck in all you do
Sophia DeNapoli
Unfortunately I cannot hear you guys... Great conversation though.
Remzi Musovich
while they are away ....who here is ROYAL... show those crowns
Amanda Phillips
Hope it comes back...now!
Mala Devi
So sad unable to watch.
Kim Palmer
iPad needs to be refreshed wait🙀
Shelley Sweeney
Gone catch ya later Thankyou always
Jlo Moonbeam
Come back 🙏
Sana Raees
My screen froze
Kathy Prince Stein
Yes they miss you and you give them another chance and they go right back to being their mean toxic selves so my husband and I we are done with them. Sad, but have to be for our own good.
Nora Zoe
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Tammy Johnson-Ray
Was it something I said? 😳
Suzanne Miles
👑 royals with wait for you to return on this interesting discussion so many can relate 👑
Melody Jarrell
Crashed
Lauralee Smyth
If we don't get you back then have a nice evening
Asha A Stone
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Daisy Mustakertcheva
Who I let to do that to me, big lesson for me😄😄😄I am free now , is never to late let go and grow. I thank God for the willingness and the strength courage I get from my high-power🙏🏻😄😄❤️❤️
Vicki Maren Reed
I'm getting sleepy here in Ontario Canada, but I have gotten so much from this talk. Mostly affirmation. Sincere thanks.
Misty Lewis
You still look like you're trying to kiss us all.
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Yup
Melissa Loftis
Still waiting.
DeNise Ruby
I needed this one too! I just had to block someone because of his abusive ways.
Caren Young Oakley
We're losing yall!!! 💔
Jennette Oconnor
LOYAL ROYALS AT THE WAITING👑👑👑👑👑
Robin Franklin-Buck
I noticed
Hamna Eltahir
Crashed😔
Alena Raine
How do I refresh
April Drake
It's not that we love to take it to extreme cases, it's that it becomes that serious of a problem, At times.
Demetria Ke Sotiris Kolofotias
Come back
Marian Sweeney
Gremlins don't like!😉
Charmin Jackson-Turner
Oooooo, the tears are flowing...truth!!
Catherine St Peter Paya
You are nailing what my mother always told me in life. I've never needed to hear it more than now. Thanks for the truths!
Sandra Chandler Pulliam
I try to draw lines in the same then they try to guilt trip me.it makes me sad
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Everyone try to Refresh
Caren Young Oakley
Just have to refresh
Kathie Noack Zoerlein
I'm sure they are trying to get back as best as they can! Be patient guys!
Sandra Kostka
We are patient royals we shall wait 👑👑👑👑
Cathy Casciano LaBella
What happened.
Linda Marie Guerrettaz-Kauffman
How do you "do" boundaries?
Jennette Oconnor
Jenni to the royal rescue hopefully👑
Demetria Ke Sotiris Kolofotias
😩
Renee Martin
Is this a boundary? LOL
ChristiAnn Gutierrez
It's frozen...
Deborah Reed Peek
👑
Caren Young Oakley
You keep freezing
Eva Linda
People take advantage and give you grief but the second you say enough they retaliate to hurt you even more
Lynda Lou
Come back lol
Tiffany Jones
😱😨😱
Josie-joy Santos Suzuki
That's right! Nicely and well said guys... I love all your awesome thoughts and great advices... 😊👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Lauralee Smyth
👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Helene Kutz
It crashed!
Yvonne Lozano
:(
Michelle Wigley-Omans
Freezing up
Shelley Sweeney
Breaking up here
Brandi Rae Rudder
Oh, scared me... I was so into this conversation!
Sue Keffer
Protect yourself, your peace, your life from people who aren't capable of being self aware enough to see the chaos that they create for themselves and live in. Be selfish about the time and care that you give to yourself. Love yourself, because it is only then that you can love someone else In healthy way.
Lauren Marie Grassano
Since when does Facebook have live feed? This is awesome
Demetria Ke Sotiris Kolofotias
Oh no
Caren Young Oakley
Froze!! I'm back now!! Whew!!
Stephanie Roberts
100% real!
Pamela Stiehler Byrd
I had to separate a sister relationship because of the negativity...didn't speak for 2 years...she is now back in my life and is now a very much a different person (she has done some work on herself)...has a much more positive attitude and we have a very healthy relationship now.
Jaclyn Traweek
😞
Michelle Beber
Frozen
Sarah Elder
Some are raised on false beliefs and behaviors. They learned they are not allowed to have boundaries and are not loved unless they are doing something for the other person in the relationship.
Lise Da Silva
breaking up :(
Michelle Kelly
👑👑👑👑👑 CROWNS UP !!!!
Deborah Reed Peek
Where did the feed go?
Jennette Oconnor
What happened????😞😞😞😞
Misty Lewis
You froze and look like you are kissing lol
Alena Raine
Uh oh
Yvonne Lozano
Where did you guys go/!
Jolie Burow
Uh oh! You froze!
Aimee Katherine Adamson
Enough.
Mala Devi
Broadcast interrupted.... Oh nooo
Susan Davey
Oops! The video stopped. "Video Unavailable"
Kimberly Scott
i juz did
Wendi Lyn
Frozen
Michelle Rae Fino
Froze
Kadina Green
Nail on the head with loyalty and boundaries because I am angry and resentful.
Lauren Marie Grassano
What happened
Bryant McGill
Just crashed about to be back on
Melissa Loftis
Froze.
Kristie Michelle
Lost the feed?
Sophia DeNapoli
Thanks Bryant and Jenni for permitting me to share my link to my novel Secrets Lies & Chemical Compounds. Enjoyed this evenings Tapas Bar get-together. As ever, Sophia http://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Lies-Chemical-Compounds-Pawn/dp/1503089045 https://www.facebook.com/SLCCpawn 👑💐👑
Kim Palmer
I love my brother and I feel sorry for him,but we don't like each other.sad.....🌺💕❤️💕
Robin Franklin-Buck
I kicked my daughter out and didn't hear from her for months but she's fine and has two cute little boys
Rima Hamadé
What happened?
Tassy Blunt
So glad to have distanced myself from a few passive aggressive people in my life
Asha A Stone
Yes I agree!
Lauren Marie Grassano
Laura Perritt
Jolie Burow
Yep!!! Happened to me, but not anymore!
Eva Linda
Yes, caretakers really do suffer. I did
Lisa Summers
This is such an important topic especially with the holidays. Being forced to be around toxic people for the love of family.
Shelley Sweeney
Jealously is the worst
Donna Romaine Wood
Just treat them the way you want to be treated and that balances the situation
Victoria Ann
I just had our third child last night and hes lives at another woman's house as of the past two weeks, hasn't held his newborn daughter yet....5 years to waste? No, I have no regrets. Just SUCH a dirty feeling I had that scum by me for that long and didn't see it till now......feels great tho to release and cleanse
Daisy Mustakertcheva
So true🙏🏻I am going true right now ending relationship with a very toxic addicted man . Who to manipulate me
Elaine Milligan
I never really had a good marriage of 13 year's, but now I'm looking after him with him having lung and brain cancer,stage 4 ..
A Alanda Gregory
I grew up with that with a family full of women.
Anna Filgueira
That's right healthy boundaries!
Power to Love
they will find themselves in the room alone :D
April Drake
If you can only give of what you have. The boundary is a fail safe from being sucked completely dry emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially, and even socially.
Lise Da Silva
Be your best influence
Kimberly Scott
dont limit your imagination 😉
Heather Jarman
Yes.."Space" is sometimes with family...So 'limit it yes...
NanCy Oquendo
Once my mother died I stopped it all
Linda Marie Guerrettaz-Kauffman
What about healthy adult kids who feel entitled ?
ChristiAnn Gutierrez
Your example will possible help them to change.
Robin Franklin-Buck
If you don't kick them out you'll be mentally drained...they'll only be mad for a little bit
Power to Love
caretaker's issues are crucial - MUST take care of yourself first
Karina Urena Urena
Omg yes
Cindy Bouford
That's right! :))
Eva Linda
I so needed this today. Just got out of an abusive relationship
Richard Resener
thresholds and limits, yes
Lise Da Silva
of the 5 people, don't forget to include yourself!
Samantha Spillane
Sometimes the act of not helping them and walking away is a way of helping them. Sometimes people need to lose that safety net, in order to pick themselves up.
Pamela Stiehler Byrd
You can love them but you need to make sure you self perserve.
Lisa Summers
Yes! Some of my family are toxic and I had to break free. I allowed myself to be enslaved by my family.
Donna Romaine Wood
Set limits set expectations
Lorelei Elaine
"Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are."
Kimberly Scott
☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️😃
Jackie DeVitto Ferris
I lived w emotional abuse by my parents and ex husband for so long and finally I separated myself from it. The peace I feel now I never felt it's so amazing
Hector Flores
Helloooo Royals!!!
Robin Franklin-Buck
Nobody is perfect but we need to take care of ourselves because if we don't nobody else will
Caren Young Oakley
Good for putting your foot down Laurie!
Michelle Kelly
👑👑👑👑👑👑 Healthy Emotional Boarders
NanCy Oquendo
I stopped the toxicity
Mitch Ell
We should have dinner together when you gents are in NY.
April Drake
I admire that you have chosen to bring up this topic. It's not the easiest one, and that's okay. I know you may not need these words but I want to vocally show my support. It's a heavy topic and I am very impressed the way you are choosing to address it. I'm proud of you both, Bryant and Jenni. I'm sorry Jenni, is this the correct spelling?🙂
Mary Danek
Everyone has something to offer, it's to our choosing what as do with it.
Nichole Krebs Finn
That can be very frightening the 5 people............ I choose to be alone and lonely a lot
Charmin Jackson-Turner
Love this.
Caren Young Oakley
You're still Royal Jenny!! 👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
Michael Nolan
That was Jim Rohn and time is more valuable then money
Kathleen Bristol Connolly
I learned so much of this the hard way lol but once you have this wisdom life gets so much better.
Laurie Lankins Farley
My family talks down about my work.. Well, not anymore!! ❤️❤️👑👑👑
Cynthia Goodwin
Hello Bryant and Jenni❤️
Cindy Bouford
Nothing wrong with setting boundaries. It's absolutely imperative at times. Thank you for having this conversation. Very timely. You guys are beautiful. :))
Greg Dutilly
When my dad left us, the people who helped me, used that against me later.
Nicole Neve
It's hard when you need to disengage from certain family members and the other members don't understand and try to keep you together.
Tammy Miller
Right
Power to Love
You need to have a dream in order to keep moving on leaving those kinds of situations behind you. A loving family will support your movement
Lacy Turner Packard
Inventory has helped me more than I can express. If everyone had a 12 step program we would all be better for it!
Varsha Deepak Wadhwa
Bang on!!!!!!!!!👸👸👸👸
Mitra Mahmoudi
great
Melissa Loftis
There are people that thrive off working the system, manipulate and get for free...they don't care who they step on or use. Toxic and destructive.
Kim Palmer
Older people are not gonna tolerate the drama,been their done that,going forward with Bryant and Jenni,my husband my kids and my dogs💕❤️❤️❤️💕
RM Alexander
Yes..so true.
Harry Richards
Lord help Me... the five people I hang around with the most... lol. Jim Rohn is awesome... :)
Tee Menes Wuu
🍻🍷🍸🍹🍻
Pamela Stiehler Byrd
Or manupulation
Donna Romaine Wood
Surround yourself with positive people and weed out negativity.
Hope Blazo
Why do we like people more when they treat us bad verses people who treat us good???
Kim McKinstry
I love what you both have to say!! Thank you.
Lise Da Silva
My dogs lol happy and loving!!
NanCy Oquendo
I'm down to none
Rikki Thurman Teddleton
You guys are great ♡ I appreciate you!
Anna Kulhankova
Very true guys 👏👏
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
Wow. Good point !
Jlo Moonbeam
Do dogs count.
Jolie Burow
Then you and Jenni have it made! Hee hee 💕
Nicola Reid
Sniffing like one lots :/
Cathy Casciano LaBella
Hi guys
Asha A Stone
Yay yay !!! Whoop whoop caught u this time !!!
Kathy Prince Stein
It's so true though.
Sandro Uomo Attivo
David shear - agree. The ław of attraction ....
Michelle Kelly
You become your own surroundings
Amanda Phillips
I meant now oops
Jenny J Johnson
You are judging Bryant I am really disappointed in your response to that
Flipper SurfGiant
Maybe I'm a fool then for believing it's never too late to fix a friendship. To not give up on someone for a misstep in the relationship.
Kim McKinstry
It's definitely a mindset you have to choose to set your boundaries. It is hard at first to distinguish yourself from being selfish or mean vs choosing the people you would like in your life and what behaviors you will accept. It is a hard war to fight for yourself. It is worth the fight for your true self and "tribe".
Richard Resener
*your *me
Caren Young Oakley
It's sink or swim
Vivien Jainar
Im thankful that i don't have that kind of traits
Pamela Stiehler Byrd
Hi Jenni and Bryant just got on.
Kaitlyn Diane
Jenny I feel u cuzzo but get on the grind
Rem Chu
Such an inspiring people.. Each day u both r impressing us more by ur practical words.. So realistic people.. God bless you two and thnx a trillion :)
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
Tell it like it is. We are better than welfare !
Patrick Antrim Jr
Your family is a team. The most important culture. Sometimes we have to set boundaries here too
Sandro Uomo Attivo
Listening intently - music to my ears .... Greetings from Melbourne 👍🏿😊☀️
Marian Juskiw
I raised 2 boys by myself and now I own my own condo with everything in it... 👍🏻 you will never get ahead on welfare.
Elle A Wharwood
You should not sacrifice your well being to take care of others. You can't save a drowning man if you are drowning too.
Amanda Phillips
Eight year toxic I dealt with...glad to have learned know...agree with your philosophy...it is very similar to my thinking now. It becomes not a loss but a relief to be rid of the destruction. Now, I can spot it real quickly. And know how to create boundaries. It is a constant struggle though. Ty. 34 yr old female.
Linda Marie Guerrettaz-Kauffman
Words to use to get two adult kids to move on in life and let me and my husband go back to ours!
April Duwe
Yesssss
Lisa Summers
Create your mastermind alliance.
Sandy Paisley
Hi guys
Violeta Lenos
But sometimes when you tell people the truth they will think you are the negative one!
Donna Romaine Wood
Same philosophy can be applied to personal life
David Shaar
You attract by the same vibration. You are not the one who chooses.
Richard Resener
Awareness of power struggles, egos and pride seem to limit some peoples ability to build necessary relationships that can offer mutual benefits. It is difficult to see this in ourselves and I appreciate you messages and reminders to help be build and evaluate my self awareness.
Robin Franklin-Buck
Some of the poorest people in our lives are appealing to us
Jason Smyth
It's the people who have a dozen kids so the state will give them money, and refuse to work, that abuse the system.
Shyla O'Dell
What about loving everyone and finding the good in all ? Just as God does ?
Kavita Gupta
Really want to say THANKS to you Bryant n Jenny... For giving your time n concern... :-*
Lise Da Silva
We teach people how to treat us. Respect yourself and expect the same from others, don't tolerate less
Wendi Lyn
Good for Brittany
Caren Young Oakley
There's solution Jenny. Instead of getting offended look at it as guidance and advise
Tamie Leukhardt
Dang i hope we can share this for those who missed it..... there are people who need to hear this!!!!
Karina Urena Urena
AMEN
Nora Zoe
Help yourself first.
Patrick Antrim Jr
Culture is your strategy
NanCy Oquendo
The threshold is shorter for those that want to alter your inner peace
Susan Davey
I refused to go on disability for the very reason that it would define me as "less than able". I didn't want that definition. I'm still building!
Jenny J Johnson
I have been a single mother of 5 children for years with no support from their fathers but that is a choice
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
Welfare is suppose to be temporary people !!!
Tiffany Garner
Yes, Amen!!
April Drake
Like attracts like. So I can understand why you have a higher expectation on people who come into your life.
Joanna Hamm
I'm 44 and I'm over all the drama and toxic people. I want to live my life the way I want to live it.
Shelley Sweeney
Hi from Tokyo👑❤️
Britt Ever LY
I'm a single mother of 3, I work and go to grad school. No welfare.
Vivien Jainar
There's a need now to first take care of myself. ..much more of my heart.thanks a lot Mr Bryant Mcgill
Jenise Keyes
Oh I'm late 😥 I will watch all later . I love you two please keep spreading your loving advise we need you .👑👑👑👑👑
Denise Thompson Antonio
I get annoyed when people don't take accountability for their actions and blame everyone else for their unhappiness and bad choices.
Sanjay Jariwala
We are not human being having a spiritual experience: We are spiritual being having a human experience. B ✋🏼TAO SHI😀
Anna Filgueira
👏👏👏👏
Henry Flores
Very True. ;)
Robin Franklin-Buck
Money doesn't matter it's how you treat people and how they treat you
Beverly Pratt
I think thats the biggest problem of life... selfishness! I don't agree with allowing toxicity to absorb into my veins... and I do set my boundaries as to what I allow others to say or do to me. Most everyone of us have been that toxic person... I do not agree with removal, distance yes, removal No!
Mary Danek
You are who you hang out with. Set the tone. Makes sense
Michelle Kelly
I have a disabled child. AND WE DONT LIVE ON WELFARE.
Jean-Marie Mulholland
What if people are disabled
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
It's for your own good. Bryant means well !!!
Carolyn Patten
👏
Jenny J Johnson
Wow
Lacy Turner Packard
Earn more or spend less
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
That's so TRUE !!! Get off welfare !!!
Wendi Lyn
Denise try walking away the first time and save yourself the pain.
Tammy Miller
What about ss
Tamara Mathews
I left a very toxic marriage and it was the best decision I made for myself and my happiness.
Joanna Hamm
The older I get I'm like ALL I WANT TO BE IS HAPPY.
Jlo Moonbeam
Me too !! Mid 40s
Samantha Calvanese
Willingness
Author Holly Ruttenbur Dickinson
yes the 40's have been quite the lesson years.
Sanjay Jariwala
✋🏼TAO SHI😀
Kathy Prince Stein
Yes! Older you put up with less! Wish I learned earlier!
ChristiAnn Gutierrez
Sometimes we stay in relationships even past their expiration dates...lol
Nichole Krebs Finn
There are only so many times you can forgive and forget before it becomes a habit and a pattern that never stops. You have to put an end to the nonsense
Sunshine J Cortez
Jesus Padilla
Lorelei Elaine
That's it Jenni! I'm done.
Sajeda Manzoor
Really beautiful words absolutely you are a real human lover and passionate author.♡♡♡
Sunshine J Cortez
Darryl Justin Padilla
Linda Marie Guerrettaz-Kauffman
It's hard as a mother to set. Boundaries for adult kids living with you.
Robin Franklin-Buck
It's not about material it's about mental
Caren Young Oakley
There is life after meth- But they have to want it
Sanjay Jariwala
✋🏼TAO SHI😀
Suzanne Miles
Hell no 👑
Nicola Reid
Stop sniffing it's coke not concessioueness close enough
Candy Loubser
You have the key to your own happiness
Denise Thompson Antonio
I've forgiven many times but when they keep abusing and disrespecting me, after 3 times, I just move on and close the door to their drama.
Patrick Antrim Jr
Billionaires invest in their network for this reason. Alignment of mindset
Power to Love
It's all about influences. If a person is creating a bad environment I have the right to choose to be around the influences that represent the kind of life I want to live.
Jenny J Johnson
I am on welfare that is kind of offensive
James Vernon Seal
This is too funny you're sitting in a bar talking about people with disabilities mental health issues you are a hypocrite because you don't even know what them people are going throw they could of gone through being abused by their parents or an uncle or a aunt brother or sister grandmother grandfather exc.. So sit there and be a hypocrite and talk about people with disabilities while you're drinking and eating pizza how cool you are you're not you're pathetic people like you are the reason why people like that you can't deal with your problems like they do so why don't you google it and get some more information before you start putting people down with disabilities and further more the only way you can deal with your problems as I see it is drinking to get Rid of your problems away that's how you deal with yours and thirty six hundred thousand American deal with it the same way and I choose let go and let God and further more have the doctors counselors some of them are on mental health drugs and you choose to deal with it by taking alcohol it's written all over your face.. So on that note goodnight and god bless watch them red in Green light they are a bicth sometimes ..
Marian Juskiw
Toxic people you have to say no, breathe and walk away...
Samantha Calvanese
We all have a part and play a role in every aspect of our life. It's up to u to get up and change. No ones gonna do it for u. You choose where u want to be
Vicki Maren Reed
Omg. I just told a woman tonight to not contact me again. She was bent on bringing me down to her toxic level!!!
Jlo Moonbeam
I agree with the volunteer part... I am in the midst right now of a separation .. Still feel sad/sorry for my toxic abuser.. Missed the start of this but am so please to join now
Hilda Rosa Giraldo
Losers
Kathy Prince Stein
👍
Jason Smyth
Even if you were born into a toxic family, you don't have to be toxic.
Joanna Hamm
I'm all helped out! I'm drowning trying to keep everyone else afloat!
Elle A Wharwood
You can only help people who want to be helped. Some people don't want help they want company to ride their wave of drama....
Jennette Oconnor
My universe, my life, my rules👑👑👑
Samantha Spillane
Sometimes the act of not helping them and walking away is a way of helping them. Sometime people need to lose that safety net, and to pick themselves up.
Eleanor Bee
No one’s perfect. I’m sure some people would think I’m “toxic,” so I try to be careful about judging others. I believe most people are doing the best they can. Peace.
Brigitte Satter
my so called best friend was very toxic. but she called me self centered. so I became selfish n said adios!
Nora Zoe
Standard are bounderes.
April Drake
I apologize for my Tendency to jump from points of view in the same sentences when I'm talking. 🙂
NanCy Oquendo
Thank you
Tracy Ortiz
We are responsible for our happiness or or sadness.
Àine Nash
Emotional blackmail sucks!
Neek Marie
Everything you do in your life is a choice. People need to love themselves before they enter a relationship :) Stay blessed x
Kaitlyn Diane
niggas ain't shit
Sanjay Jariwala
We are not human being having a spiritual experience: We are spiritual being having a human experience. B ✋🏼TAO SHI😀
Laurie Lankins Farley
Yay Frank!
Robin Franklin-Buck
It has to do with the ugly and how they drag us through the mud
Heather Jarman
Take "Responsibility"...
Laurie Lankins Farley
Bunny Young!!
Candy Loubser
Live for you. Not others
Esmy Esmy
True
Jason Rousseau
You made me realize a lot of things tonight, thank you :)
Michelle Beber
Good for you Frank!
Varsha Deepak Wadhwa
True true true true 👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Donna Joaquin
I was always trying to make everyone happy, People sucked the life out of me, Now I stand up with my Boundaries, Every thing you have posted is true. Thank you Bryant.
RM Alexander
Co dependant...That's our responsibility...
Jolie Burow
Very hard at WORK to get away from toxic people when one HAS to deal with them on a daily basis
Mitra Mahmoudi
yes
Laurie Lankins Farley
Hi Susan Young!!
Flipper SurfGiant
What about forgiving and forget and starting new
Kim Palmer
If the father is toxic did he raise toxic babies???????
Jenny J Johnson
I will take accountability
Robin Franklin-Buck
I love the V word ...I am a volunteer!!!
Santiago Maria
Sounds about right to me that's what I'm gonna Do thank u so much 😇
Michelle Kelly
👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑 Gotta live for me. Not for others.
Grecia Ford
What if you were raised by a toxic parent and now have that persons trait?
Kavita Gupta
Toxic relationships.. We can call them "abusive relationships"..
Linda Marie Guerrettaz-Kauffman
Drugs and alcohol make it even worse!
Mala Devi
Stay away from these people if its really have too.
Heather Jarman
Indeed....
Misty Lewis
With my mother all the relatives disowned her except me so far cause she needs help. I've just limited time with her and with her negativity etc I'll ask her if she's done yet and also ask her what's positive about your day. I try to redirect her and be an example to her.
Jenny J Johnson
Thanks John
Nick Cobos
#chooseyourself
Susan Young
that is so true
April Drake
Accountability can be a tough pill to swallow. NLP teaches that all people are trying to better ourselves for the better. That doesn't mean people won't use you to get a gain in there own life. So you have to be careful.
Donna Romaine Wood
It's your house. Your rules!
Power to Love
sometime you just shut down a toxic person for your own peace of mind.
Laurie Lankins Farley
Hi April Chambers!
NanCy Oquendo
I get accused of being a b* for saying those things
Jenny J Johnson
How do I sperate the two
Àine Nash
You don't need to explain yourself
Robin Franklin-Buck
I can't even answer the phone to one of my sisters because she immediately starts talking about people
Caren Young Oakley
You are your own common denominator
Nora Zoe
Drama is negative. Downer.
Kathleen Bristol Connolly
Choose yourself Even on the airplane they tell you to put your oxygen mask on first so you can breathe in order to help someone else
Candy Loubser
You cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped!!!
Donna Romaine Wood
You are your own best friend
Michelle Kelly
I "HAD" a friend who was completely addicted to being negative all the time. Hating on everything and everyone. Backstabbing. I had to be selfish. (And I'm the bad person for doing so)
Jenny J Johnson
The love of my life is a part of that toxicity
Jeri Layton
👑👑👑
Pina Shah
I dont knw wat to do...set up boundaries...did all i cud...yet
Debi Grinstead
No key to Toxic!!!! Gate closed! 💖
Koto Ojeda
You are the best teacher for us.You are Royal
Heather Jarman
WURD!!!! Royal!!!
François Mantha
How do touch that?
Michelle Beber
Don Kiefer you can always watch the videos from the archive.
Nora Zoe
Shame on you. Shame on me. So true.
Linda Beasley
Thank you Bryant, Do you know how many times you have told me this story ?
Patrick Antrim Jr
People experience this at work to
Tammy Marie Pesaresi
Shutting the door can be difficult, especially when the person keeps pushing it back open!
Wendi Lyn
Right Caren.
Elle A Wharwood
So was I Christine..... Glad to be out of it.... Cheers!
Power to Love
drama makes them feel alive

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