<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # You see, People have some really crazy ideas about... > You see, p{P{eople have some really crazy ideas about love, friends and relationships. They have the absurd belief that their friends, children, family, lovers and companions can make them happy.}} {{Love is by, for and about you, and it never had anything to do with another person.}} The love you bring to the table, is a way of living that you have been practicing in your life — and that love can be needy, controlling, selfish, conditional and desperate, or it can be confident, open, giving, unconditional, and secure. {{Your love capability is something you cultivate within yourself.}} {{Loving is like any other art-craft where the masters have carefully practiced and where the novices have languished in their carelessness.}} {{This is why some relationships look so beautiful, and some look so tragic — beauty belongs to the thoughtful; tragedy to the neglectful.}} **Source:** [[books/Simple Reminders Book (2014-2018)|Simple Reminders]] <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->