<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Be selfish in your forgiving. Forgive for yourself... > Be selfish in your forgiving. {{Forgive for yourself and for the peace it will bring to your pain.}} Forgiveness has very little to do with the other person. {{Forgiveness is about your peace of mind. When you don't forgive, you are the one who suffers.}} {{When we refuse to forgive someone, we deeply jeopardize our own well-being. When we condemn others we condemn ourselves.}} {{When we judge and agonize over another's faults, we become attached to their imbalance and sickness.}} {{When we hold-on to someone's imperfections we become emotionally pair-bonded to their maladies.}} At a deeper level, w{W{hen we constantly meditate on another's faults, it may be because we are neglecting our own unhealed wounds.}} **Source:** [[books/Simple Reminders Book (2014-2018)|Simple Reminders]] <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->