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# Brutal honesty is usually brutality using honesty...
> Brutal honesty is usually brutality using honesty as its excuse. When a relationship needs to be renegotiated, practice compassionate honesty instead: state your standards clearly, with compassion for the other person and for yourself, and invite them to renegotiate before you decide whether the contract can continue.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Alternate Capture of New Beginnings — Relationship Contracts and the Energy We Protect - Workbook|Alternate Capture of New Beginnings — Relationship Contracts and the Energy We Protect]]
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“Brutal honesty is usually brutality using honesty as its excuse. When a relationship needs to be renegotiated, practice compassionate honesty instead: state your standards clearly, with compassion for the other person and for yourself, and invite them to renegotiate before you decide whether the contract can continue.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-brutal-honesty-usually-whether-contract-continue
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