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# Conflict avoidance can preserve surface peace...
> Conflict avoidance can preserve surface peace while forcing disagreement underground. Anxiety grows when the spoken relationship and the lived relationship diverge. Honest friction can be kinder than indefinite performance.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Critical Thinking, Dignity, and the Practice of Respect - Workbook|Critical Thinking, Dignity, and the Practice of Respect]]
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“Conflict avoidance can preserve surface peace while forcing disagreement underground. Anxiety grows when the spoken relationship and the lived relationship diverge. Honest friction can be kinder than indefinite performance.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-conflict-avoidance-preserve-kinder-indefinite-performance
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