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# When conflict spreads through a group, look at who...
> When conflict spreads through a group, look at who is doing the talking. The people passing messages, retelling stories, and framing events are usually the ones shaping the narrative, and if you find yourself among them, you may be helping create the very conflict you dislike.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Argumentation as Discovery, Not Conflict - Workbook|Argumentation as Discovery, Not Conflict]]
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“When conflict spreads through a group, look at who is doing the talking. The people passing messages, retelling stories, and framing events are usually the ones shaping the narrative, and if you find yourself among them, you may be helping create the very conflict you dislike.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-conflict-spreads-group-create-conflict-dislike
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