<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # The desire to keep everything from falling apart... > The desire to keep everything from falling apart can become a control strategy that prevents other people from developing competence. Responsible restraint allows consequences to teach what repeated explanation could not. **Source:** [[livestreams/Composure, Boundaries, and the Freedom Not to Rush - Workbook|Composure, Boundaries, and the Freedom Not to Rush]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “The desire to keep everything from falling apart can become a control strategy that prevents other people from developing competence. Responsible restraint allows consequences to teach what repeated explanation could not.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-desire-keep-everything-teach-repeated-explanation ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->