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# Discernment is part of care. Warning someone away...
> Discernment is part of care. Warning someone away from a cliff edge is an act of love, and assessing who is safe to keep close is a basic human skill. Gentle language, such as calling difficult people "rascals," can help people think about the topic without defensiveness.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 1 - Workbook|Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 1]]
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“Discernment is part of care. Warning someone away from a cliff edge is an act of love, and assessing who is safe to keep close is a basic human skill. Gentle language, such as calling difficult people "rascals," can help people think about the topic without defensiveness.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-discernment-part-care-topic-without-defensiveness
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