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# Drop the tit-for-tat ledger. Keeping score of...
> Drop the tit-for-tat ledger. Keeping score of chores and favors, then using them as weapons later, breeds resentment, while giving freely often allows a natural flow of contributions to develop.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Partnership, Trust, and the Work of Shared Purpose - Workbook|Partnership, Trust, and the Work of Shared Purpose]]
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“Drop the tit-for-tat ledger. Keeping score of chores and favors, then using them as weapons later, breeds resentment, while giving freely often allows a natural flow of contributions to develop.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-drop-tit-tat-flow-contributions-develop
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