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# Fear of abandonment can disguise itself as...
> Fear of abandonment can disguise itself as loyalty. Some people hold onto harmful relationships hoping their own faithfulness will be returned when they falter. Confidence and self-worth make it easier to disengage from people who keep raising the toxicity load.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 1 - Workbook|Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 1]]
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“Fear of abandonment can disguise itself as loyalty. Some people hold onto harmful relationships hoping their own faithfulness will be returned when they falter. Confidence and self-worth make it easier to disengage from people who keep raising the toxicity load.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-fear-abandonment-disguise-raising-toxicity-load
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