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# The fear of disappointing others can make time...
> The fear of disappointing others can make time available to whoever expresses the most pressure. Self-command returns allocation to values, obligations, and the actual importance of the work rather than the volume of the request.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Composure, Boundaries, and the Freedom Not to Rush - Workbook|Composure, Boundaries, and the Freedom Not to Rush]]
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“The fear of disappointing others can make time available to whoever expresses the most pressure. Self-command returns allocation to values, obligations, and the actual importance of the work rather than the volume of the request.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-fear-disappointing-others-rather-volume-request
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