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# Find one positive friend who models a better life....
> Find one positive friend who models a better life. A calm, loving, self-sufficient person with solid relationships and steady finances provides a living reference point. Seeking such a friend or mentor, and being honest about wanting to learn, is often enough to start the change.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 2 - Workbook|Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 2]]
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“Find one positive friend who models a better life. A calm, loving, self-sufficient person with solid relationships and steady finances provides a living reference point. Seeking such a friend or mentor, and being honest about wanting to learn, is often enough to start the change.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-find-positive-friend-enough-start-change
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