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# The first rejection may describe the current...
> The first rejection may describe the current proposal rather than the person. Ask what produced the no, determine whether the condition can honestly change, and preserve enough self-respect to redirect when it cannot.
**Source:** [[livestreams/The Power of Asking Without Abandoning Yourself - Workbook|The Power of Asking Without Abandoning Yourself]]
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“The first rejection may describe the current proposal rather than the person. Ask what produced the no, determine whether the condition can honestly change, and preserve enough self-respect to redirect when it cannot.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-first-rejection-describe-respect-redirect-cannot
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