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# Grief and resentment are not identical. Grief...
> Grief and resentment are not identical. Grief mourns what was lost; resentment keeps negotiating with the fantasy that the past can still be forced to pay differently. Knowing which process is active changes the kind of care required.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Resentment, Vulnerability, and the Decision to Move Forward - Workbook|Resentment, Vulnerability, and the Decision to Move Forward]]
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“Grief and resentment are not identical. Grief mourns what was lost; resentment keeps negotiating with the fantasy that the past can still be forced to pay differently. Knowing which process is active changes the kind of care required.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-grief-resentment-identical-kind-care-required
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