<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Hostility should not become the organizing center... > Hostility should not become the organizing center of a new life. Remove destructive access where necessary, but build the future around the people, practices, and purposes being protected rather than around permanent combat with what was refused. **Source:** [[livestreams/Wishes, Boundaries, and the Structure of Change - Workbook|Wishes, Boundaries, and the Structure of Change]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “Hostility should not become the organizing center of a new life. Remove destructive access where necessary, but build the future around the people, practices, and purposes being protected rather than around permanent combat with what was refused.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-hostility-should-become-permanent-combat-refused ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->