<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Intimacy improves when each person speaks from... > Intimacy improves when each person speaks from self-observation. “I notice that I shut down and I want to stay present” invites cooperation more effectively than a prosecution of everything the other person does wrong. **Source:** [[livestreams/Aloneness, Emotional Resilience, and Becoming Your Own Light - Workbook|Aloneness, Emotional Resilience, and Becoming Your Own Light]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “Intimacy improves when each person speaks from self-observation. “I notice that I shut down and I want to stay present” invites cooperation more effectively than a prosecution of everything the other person does wrong.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-intimacy-improves-person-everything-person-wrong ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->