<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Keeping a strict ledger in relationships drains... > Keeping a strict ledger in relationships drains generosity. Tracking every coffee or splitting every bill to the penny signals a mindset that holds both people back. **Source:** [[livestreams/Usefulness, Reciprocity, and the Cost of Staying in the Game - Workbook|Usefulness, Reciprocity, and the Cost of Staying in the Game]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “Keeping a strict ledger in relationships drains generosity. Tracking every coffee or splitting every bill to the penny signals a mindset that holds both people back.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-keeping-strict-ledger-both-people-back ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->