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# Let children be who they are. When parents insist...
> Let children be who they are. When parents insist on constant smiles, children learn to perform for approval, and the parents lose the chance to know the real child.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Loneliness, Concentration, and the Practice of the Good Life - Workbook|Loneliness, Concentration, and the Practice of the Good Life]]
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“Let children be who they are. When parents insist on constant smiles, children learn to perform for approval, and the parents lose the chance to know the real child.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-let-children-who-know-real-child
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