<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # The mental load is the ledger of a household, and... > The mental load is the ledger of a household, and the fight is never about the chores. The fight is about who was made to hold the ledger and who arranged to be excused from it. **Source:** [[books/Chimping Out|Chimping Out]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “The mental load is the ledger of a household, and the fight is never about the chores. The fight is about who was made to hold the ledger and who arranged to be excused from it.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-mental-load-ledger-who-arranged-excused ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->