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# Most conversational failure begins when self-talk...
> Most conversational failure begins when self-talk becomes louder than the speaker. The mind prepares defense, comparison, advice, and autobiography. Discipline returns attention to what has not yet been understood.
**Source:** [[livestreams/The Discipline of Genuine Listening - Workbook|The Discipline of Genuine Listening]]
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“Most conversational failure begins when self-talk becomes louder than the speaker. The mind prepares defense, comparison, advice, and autobiography. Discipline returns attention to what has not yet been understood.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-most-conversational-failure-attention-yet-understood
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