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# A parent's apology may help, but healing cannot...
> A parent's apology may help, but healing cannot depend upon an oblivious person becoming historically accurate. The adult can validate the injury, recover the missing context, and build a different internal authority even when the original witness never understands.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Understanding and Releasing Internalized Shame - Workbook|Understanding and Releasing Internalized Shame]]
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“A parent's apology may help, but healing cannot depend upon an oblivious person becoming historically accurate. The adult can validate the injury, recover the missing context, and build a different internal authority even when the original witness never understands.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-parents-apology-help-witness-never-understands
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