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# A partner's refusal to change does not require the...
> A partner's refusal to change does not require the other person to freeze. Personal development can begin independently while remaining honest about the relationship's shared obligations and costs.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Metacognition, Flexible Identity, and Meeting Opportunity Halfway - Workbook|Metacognition, Flexible Identity, and Meeting Opportunity Halfway]]
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“A partner's refusal to change does not require the other person to freeze. Personal development can begin independently while remaining honest about the relationship's shared obligations and costs.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-partners-refusal-change-shared-obligations-costs
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