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# People learn our boundaries through the pattern of...
> People learn our boundaries through the pattern of access we permit. Every limit repeatedly announced and repeatedly unenforced teaches the surrounding system that our words carry no operational consequence.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Assertiveness for Introverts — The Power of Asking and Standing Up for Yourself - Workbook|Assertiveness for Introverts — The Power of Asking and Standing Up for Yourself]]
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“People learn our boundaries through the pattern of access we permit. Every limit repeatedly announced and repeatedly unenforced teaches the surrounding system that our words carry no operational consequence.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-people-learn-boundaries-no-operational-consequence
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