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# People-pleasing often purchases short-term safety...
> People-pleasing often purchases short-term safety with long-term self-erasure. The immediate social price of disagreement may feel high, but the cumulative price of permanent compliance is a life increasingly authored by other people's preferences.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Assertiveness for Introverts — The Power of Asking and Standing Up for Yourself - Workbook|Assertiveness for Introverts — The Power of Asking and Standing Up for Yourself]]
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“People-pleasing often purchases short-term safety with long-term self-erasure. The immediate social price of disagreement may feel high, but the cumulative price of permanent compliance is a life increasingly authored by other people's preferences.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-people-pleasing-often-authored-peoples-preferences
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