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# Many people were raised on rewards and punishments...
> Many people were raised on rewards and punishments for outward performance, homework finished, grades earned, approval won, while the inner creative self went untended. Approval-seeking can then masquerade as humility and goodness for an entire life, and a person who never develops beyond it may never fully become the individual they were capable of being.
**Source:** [[livestreams/All Is Well Within — Gratitude, Pain, and Seeds of Change - Workbook|All Is Well Within — Gratitude, Pain, and Seeds of Change]]
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“Many people were raised on rewards and punishments for outward performance, homework finished, grades earned, approval won, while the inner creative self went untended. Approval-seeking can then masquerade as humility and goodness for an entire life, and a person who never develops beyond it may never fully become the individual they were capable of being.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-people-raised-rewards-individual-capable-being
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