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# A person may avoid positive people because hope...
> A person may avoid positive people because hope threatens a familiar identity. Belonging to suffering can feel safer than entering a group whose expectations require change.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Reciprocity, Relationship Contracts, and Finding Your Tribe — Part 2 - Workbook|Reciprocity, Relationship Contracts, and Finding Your Tribe — Part 2]]
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“A person may avoid positive people because hope threatens a familiar identity. Belonging to suffering can feel safer than entering a group whose expectations require change.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-person-avoid-positive-expectations-require-change
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