<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # A person can want change while remaining attached... > A person can want change while remaining attached to the rewards of the old pattern. Honest planning identifies what the pattern supplies—belonging, excitement, rescue, identity, or relief—so the new life can meet the need without reproducing the damage. **Source:** [[livestreams/Wishes, Boundaries, and the Structure of Change - Workbook|Wishes, Boundaries, and the Structure of Change]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “A person can want change while remaining attached to the rewards of the old pattern. Honest planning identifies what the pattern supplies—belonging, excitement, rescue, identity, or relief—so the new life can meet the need without reproducing the damage.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-person-want-change-without-reproducing-damage ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->