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# A positive influence should not become a new...
> A positive influence should not become a new dependency. The mentor's deepest contribution is to help the person develop judgment, relationships, practices, and confidence that remain when the mentor is absent.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 2 - Workbook|Boundaries, Survival, and Refusing to Become a Toxic Dumping Ground — Part 2]]
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“A positive influence should not become a new dependency. The mentor's deepest contribution is to help the person develop judgment, relationships, practices, and confidence that remain when the mentor is absent.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-positive-influence-should-remain-mentor-absent
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