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# A relationship should not be judged only by the...
> A relationship should not be judged only by the intensity of love. Examine whether its actual pattern increases dignity, truth, stability, agency, and the ability of both people to grow.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Healing Painful Relationships Through Honesty and Safety - Workbook|Healing Painful Relationships Through Honesty and Safety]]
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“A relationship should not be judged only by the intensity of love. Examine whether its actual pattern increases dignity, truth, stability, agency, and the ability of both people to grow.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-relationship-should-judged-both-people-grow
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