<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # The right question is not whether conflict occurs... > The right question is not whether conflict occurs but what the system does with conflict. Does disagreement produce learning and repair, or does it produce fear, punishment, scorekeeping, and a narrower self? **Source:** [[livestreams/Relationship Trajectory, Positive Feedback, and Going All In - Workbook|Relationship Trajectory, Positive Feedback, and Going All In]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “The right question is not whether conflict occurs but what the system does with conflict. Does disagreement produce learning and repair, or does it produce fear, punishment, scorekeeping, and a narrower self?” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-right-question-whether-scorekeeping-narrower-self ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->