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# How you say things often matters more than what...
> How you say things often matters more than what you say. Tone, avoiding blame, and speaking about your own feelings rather than accusing the other person can transform difficult conversations.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Overthinking, Surrender, and Moving Before All the Pieces Arrive - Workbook|Overthinking, Surrender, and Moving Before All the Pieces Arrive]]
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“How you say things often matters more than what you say. Tone, avoiding blame, and speaking about your own feelings rather than accusing the other person can transform difficult conversations.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-say-often-matters-transform-difficult-conversations
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