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# Start with yourself before pointing at others....
> Start with yourself before pointing at others. Calls for more civility, politeness, and fairness are most powerful when they begin with a commitment to change your own behavior, because accusatory language puts people on the defensive.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Independence, Gratitude, and the Unfinished American Experiment - Workbook|Independence, Gratitude, and the Unfinished American Experiment]]
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“Start with yourself before pointing at others. Calls for more civility, politeness, and fairness are most powerful when they begin with a commitment to change your own behavior, because accusatory language puts people on the defensive.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-start-yourself-before-puts-people-defensive
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