<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Talking about “him versus her” can freeze... > Talking about “him versus her” can freeze identities around blame. Talking about “the pattern we create” introduces a shared object that can be examined without erasing individual responsibility. **Source:** [[livestreams/Reflection, Perception, and the Dynamics We Create - Workbook|Reflection, Perception, and the Dynamics We Create]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “Talking about “him versus her” can freeze identities around blame. Talking about “the pattern we create” introduces a shared object that can be examined without erasing individual responsibility.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-talking-versus-freeze-erasing-individual-responsibility ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->