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# You usually cannot heal a person who keeps...
> You usually cannot heal a person who keeps betraying you. Many good people believe they will be the one whose love finally changes a habitual deceiver, but repeated betrayal tends to continue until the other person chooses to change, often with someone else. Your role is to protect yourself, not to redeem them.
**Source:** [[livestreams/Deception, Exploitative Contracts, and the Courage to Leave - Workbook|Deception, Exploitative Contracts, and the Courage to Leave]]
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“You usually cannot heal a person who keeps betraying you. Many good people believe they will be the one whose love finally changes a habitual deceiver, but repeated betrayal tends to continue until the other person chooses to change, often with someone else. Your role is to protect yourself, not to redeem them.”
— Bryant McGill
https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-usually-cannot-heal-protect-yourself-redeem
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