<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # The way you regard yourself becomes the way you... > The way you regard yourself becomes the way you regard other people. Grandiosity looks down on most of humanity, and self-hatred eventually despises in others the flaws it cannot forgive in itself; both are miscalibrations, and both make an accurate view of another person impossible. Recalibrate toward the center, where you can see your own failures without collapse and other people’s failures without contempt, and you become capable of accepting people where they are and holding the space in which they can grow. **Source:** [[livestreams/Accountability, Self-Confrontation, and Conscious Change - Workbook|Accountability, Self-Confrontation, and Conscious Change]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “The way you regard yourself becomes the way you regard other people. Grandiosity looks down on most of humanity, and self-hatred eventually despises in others the flaws it cannot forgive in itself; both are miscalibrations, and both make an accurate view of another person impossible. Recalibrate toward the center, where you can see your own failures without collapse and other people’s failures without contempt, and you become capable of accepting people where they are and holding the space in which they can grow.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-way-regard-yourself-holding-space-grow ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->