<!-- bryant-content-generator:start --> # Words give social life to what they repeatedly... > Words give social life to what they repeatedly organize. Speaking only about what must stop can keep the unwanted pattern at the center, while naming the desired conduct gives attention a constructive target. **Source:** [[livestreams/Relationship Contracts, Accountability, and Action - Workbook|Relationship Contracts, Accountability, and Action]] ## Share on Social Media ``` “Words give social life to what they repeatedly organize. Speaking only about what must stop can keep the unwanted pattern at the center, while naming the desired conduct gives attention a constructive target.” — Bryant McGill https://bryantmcgill.com/quotes/quotes-words-give-social-attention-constructive-target ``` <!-- bryant-content-generator:end -->